The Father Who Understands His Children. Malachi 4:6;Matthew 5:48 “The number one complaint that kids have about their parents is “They don’t understand me!”God chose the kids you were going to have. And He put them in your family. He chose them for you, you didn’t chose them. He chose them. He used your genes and put them together. The Bible is full of examples of God’s love for you and me and the Father’s love for His children. Children’s hearts turned toward their fathers, father’s hearts turned toward their children. No church is any stronger than the families in that church. No nation is any stronger than the families in that nation.